Can’t cum??

Question

I have been with 3 guys in my life and every time i had sex with them i wasn’t able to orgasm.. i have given up entirely on the idea of orgasming from penetration but i can’t even cum from oral.. i’m starting to feel like i have a defective vagina.. any advice on how i could get all the way?

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Masterbate some before hand. Also, take control in the bedroom. If something feels great tell him keep going or if somethings not doing it for you then ( in a sex way) suggest changing it up. Give him direction " slower, harder, touch me here". Men have a one track mind and unless you direct, they really only focus on themselves sadly.

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Not a lot of women can from penetration alone. Maybe try masturbating before hand, or lots of foreplay. I for one get horribly nervous and shy before sex for whatever reason even though my Boyfriend and i have been together for a year, but what helps me is when i just let him take control and eat me out before hand and he'll make me cum that way and then during sex sometimes i can cum and sometimes i still can't. It's all different for everyone! Maybe you're too nervous and focusing on that instead of relaxing (which can be hard i know) try and just enjoy it and explore yourself and guide them to what feels better

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try the clit. not a lot of women can cum from just penetration

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I can’t cum from oral or fingering but I can come from sex and use of toys. You should try a vibrator during sex it’s BOMB lol

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MASTERBATE. You need to get to know your body.

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play with your clit when your doing it you'll cum and hard lol or let him finger you and play with it. after you cum like that you should be use to cumming amd have no problem and don't think about it you wont cum if your thinking to hard and relax your vagina muscles if your making them tight well your having sex you wont cum either with sex you kinda gotta go to another place in your head and relax and it will be the best sex you ever had. also it might not be you it might be the man your sleeping with maybe they need to step it up tell your partner to give you the best orgasm of your life amd you just lay back and relax and if it doesn't work you no its him not you.

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so I'm almost 35 and I thought I'd go my whole life without an o from sex. with my newest boyfriend I totally can almost every time! It happens easier when you are on top.

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im on the same boat :/

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