Hi all! So this is my third pregnancy! My first was back in 2003, I was 21 when I had her and I gained over 50 lbs! Flash forward 12 years to 2015 when I had my son at 33. That pregnancy i gained a whopping 75 lbs! I did start off very thin but I weighed just over 200 lbs by the time I delivered him. Now I am 13 weeks pregnant and 35 years old. I am very conscious of my weight and everything I eat .. yet I’ve already gained 12 lbs. I don’t know what to do. I basically feel like I am dieting without the bonus of weight loss. I only really indulge once a week, and even then I watch what I eat. I feel so defeated and it’s taking a toll on my self esteem now too. I feel so alone on this too .. like all the other pregnant women I know now or in the past gain their 35 lbs and eat whatever they want. What am I doing wrong??