Listen, I’m going to start this off with- if you are here to complain leave please.

My husband sent a single photo to a coworker, the resulted in him being fired while I was off on a trip with my family for a weekend.

When I came back to town, he was up front and clear about what happened and was sorry he had done it, after drinking a lot and didn’t want to send it to me because I was with my family. (Wtf? That’s stupid so send it to someone else obviously.)

Anyway he never did anything wrong after or before then. He doesn’t lock his phone,laptop or tablet hiding anything.

But I don’t trust him, it made me so mad and frustrated - but after years of being abused mentally by my parents I chose to shut this out to like so many other memories. I’ve had help and now I’m working on being more open and accepting things. Now, with that said- my emotions and feelings are pouring out. We had a wonderful day yesterday and all I wanted to do was snuggle into his chest and cry even though he is the stupid reason I am crying.

I need help on how to start the conversation. The conversation where I have to tell my husband, the father of my children and the person.i love that I don’t trust him anymore.

I want to fix it so much and I want it to get betters

But I need help on how to start it.