Confused

So I have a bff n been with him for 2years almost but idk if I wanna b with him anymore he always playing video games or on his phone sitting around doesn’t really help with cleaning n when I ask him to pick up even his own things he like augh n I’m tired of it I love to clean n all but I would love some help I have two daughters n I’m older then him but I feel like maybe I need someone older that already has their life together or something he also doesn’t pay attention to me he doesn’t really say much all day doesn’t like goin out n if I wanna go do soemthing I like he their bein mad n boaring n when we do something he likes I try n like it but not him so idk what to do I’ve been goin out recently n I feel like myself again n like he holding me back cuz doesn’t help I’m much in apt n he moved in with me so idk help