PLEASE HELP ME!

So My Fiance And I Have Been Together 5 Years And Its Only The Two Of Us That Live In The House And I Swear Sometimes Its Like We Have Children. He Takes Off His Work Clothes And Put Them On The Dining Room Chairs. He Barely Washes A Dish Or Does Any Type Of Cleaning. He Says He Makes Sure The Bills Are Paid And He Puts Food In The House And That Should Be More Than Enough. He Say He Wants To Me But Truthfully Idk If Wanna Get Married. He Makes It Seem Like House Work Is Strictly A Womans Job. Dont Get Me Wrong I Dont Mind Cooking And Cleaning But Its Just He Makes Me Feel Like Its A Chore Vs Me Doing It Because I Love Him. I Want My Husband More Active In Things That We Share Including This House. i Guess I Kinda Envy My Friends Whose Husbands Cook, Clean And Do Laundry. Its Just Driving Me Crazy Now. Am I Over Reacting Or What Do You Guys Think?