me and my SO have only been together for a few months, and he’s been a lot of my firsts. this being my first relationship, i wasn’t really ready to see it end but that’s what we both thought was happening. we hadn’t really seen each other or spoken much over the past two weeks, and we finally got to see each other and talk last night. before we had talked, he seemed pretty sure that he didn’t want to be together anymore, because he felt like he couldn’t be in a relationship right now. i wanted to be with him, and i felt sure of that this whole time. i wanted to save us. however, last night when we talked he started talking about fixing things and going back to how we were before we were officially together. now i’m the one who isn’t sure what i want. i don’t want to feel like i talked him into anything or forced his hand, and i want to be sure that he’s sure what he wants. i guess my question is this, how do we move forward from here? there’s a rift now in our relationship and i’m not sure how to move past it and trust him and feel comfortable with him again. i was thinking about telling him i wanted to start over, to do some things differently this time and to just be better about communicating and all of that. i’m just not sure how to get back to feeling like us again? we’re gonna see each other and talk more again soon, but if we do decide to try things again, how do we move forward and get back to normal after this?