Jail time?

Please let me know if I’m tripping ladies. My hubby is going to jail tomorrow for 90 days for a bunch of traffic violations that caught up to him so tonight I called into work and I cooked a huge meal, cleaned up the apartment spotless, wore lingerie, and had music and candles planning just to make his last night special. He ate and left to go smoke and hang out with his friends and has been gone for almost three hours. I️ want to be cool about it but it feels like I’m coming second to smoking and his friends. Please let me know what I should’ve done differently?