How can I help?

Hello,

I’m not entirely a spouse to a military member. But him and I, we’re very interested in each other in a relationship matter, I met him through one of my Marine buddies who was in my prom group during my senior year of high school. I’m 18, and he’s 21 soon to be 22 in a few days. He’s getting out the Marines and into the civilian life sometime in May (I’m very nervous but excited at the same time), we’ve been pen paling for awhile now and it’ll be our very first time seeing and meeting each other face to face. I’ve been helping him find colleges and things for him to help his transition process go a little bit more smoother for him. He has 3 months to figure everything out, pretty much his whole life out of the military and he’s a little overwhelmed, I can understand that. But my question is, how else can I help him? And support him? Any ideas?