UPDATED: Well so he can arrange a weekend away with he's mate which will be in Feb. I said sure you can go. Then this afternoon I get a text from my mum about my sister baby shower. Which I totally forgotten about. Also recently reset my phone as it was playing up. My mum been in America and only got back and text me about whether I'm coming. So I asked my Husband whether is okay to go, as its like 55mins away on a train. So he said no. I know he thinking of my son's needs, no i don't need him after 7pm night, also not sure what time the baby shower been finished. I understand where hes coming from. But it's almost like one rule for him and another for me. If I travel by train then probably won't get home till late, usually get our son on bed on time. Also adding i be to walking there to my sisters house and walking to the train station. Train ride is 55mins. WE ARE MARRIED. So please suggest things that won't be divorce. He's lovely man. But do I go I'm going to go whether you like it or Not?