AF is due in 6 days so I went ahead and tested this morning we used preseed this month, but I got a BFN, after 14 years of trying, I think it’s time to give up, it hasn’t happened yet I’m really doubtful it ever will, I have been told everything is fine and nothing wrong with us, the past year I was told by one of the drs that maybe I just need to lose some weight. I was 160 when I had my first child, she was born 2 months early, I now weigh 225. So I have been trying to lose weight to see if it helps.