Boyfriend is 24 years older... is that too much older?

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I am 24 and he just turned 48. I’ve never met such a loving man. I’m just worried about him getting older and also that we won’t be able to conceive since he is older. He has twins that are ten years old from a previous marriage. Should I be worried?

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I'd be more concerned if he actually wanted more kids at his age.

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personally to me, I wouldn't date someone old enough to be my dad but you do whatever

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I feel like no body can tell you whether or not you might regret it. I feel like there are definitely many risk in the situation. Like at gradation you’ll be 40 and dad will almost be 70. And he will most likely die before you so in the future you’ll have to do a bunch of stuff on your own.. but then again there is no number in Love right??? Do you girl

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Men’s sperm are good until they die

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Be happy and keep your man healthy :) that’s all you need to do

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I think it’s more important to know if he wants more Children and if not, is that a dealbreaker for you?  Also in the future, you likely wont Have the same activity level. If he does want children in the future you may be taking care of him as well as the kids. Like when he’s 60s and 70s. I’m just reiterating the major things I’ve heard other women say they cannot live with when they have married a much older man. Ultimately you are the creator of your own life and can choose anything!

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my husband was 40 when we married (I was 28) we have 2 and a half year old twins, a 7 month old, and are working on another one!

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Um around 50-60 erectile dysfuntion kicks in. You want a limp dick when you've hit your sexual stride in your 30's?  You want to be an AARP comember before you've had kids of your own? He's may be grandpa before you get to be a Mom. 
He'll be on heart medicines and cholesterol pills and you'll want to be 30 and taking kids to Disney world and he will have done all that already. 
I'd never want to do elderly care when I'm 40.

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Mens sperm are good until they die so you dont have to worry about that part but after 50 the risk for erectile dysfunction increases so you may have to worry about that part.

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If you know you want kids and he’s done, that’s a bigger concern than the average difference. I wouldn’t be able to compromise on not having children, if you feel the same, that’s enough of a reason to not be together.

Boyfriend is 24 years older... is that too much older?

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