I’m at a loss for what to say to my husband to make him understand he isn’t spending enough time with me and playing too much Xbox. He is military and is gone literally monthly for training and on days he is here he works until around 5pm. He wants to come home, get on Xbox, go to the gym with his buddies, get ready for sleep, then either get back on Xbox or watch a show with me that he falls asleep to after 20 mins. I am understanding of his job and wanting time to himself, but these is zero compromise on his part. I just need advice on what to say to help him see I need more quality time together without making him defensive. Thank you.