I hate that my cycle is irregular 😒😒😒

So this is the 2nd month my period has been late ..... about six months ago I always had a normal cycle.... I missed November and was unsure wtf was going on .... my and my partner don’t use condoms and I don’t pull out .... I wouldn’t say that we are trying but I wouldn’t be mad if I was pregnant..... but anyway the test was negative and had a cycle in December... now we are in January and I’m 3 almost 4 days late...... idk if I should take the test and be some what disappointed 😔 , or just look for it in February.... Any suggestions??? I’m all 👂