So my boyfriend has never had a girlfriend before. He's never done anything remotely sexual, or even kissed a girl before. I eased him into being comfortable with hand holding and cuddling, but I'm not sure how to smoothly transition into other, more sexual things. It's not really a big priority, because he's my best friend and I really just love being around him, but I'd still like if things went further at some point. We've had many talks about pacing and how ready he thinks he is for things, but because he's so inexperienced he just doesn't really know what he wants exactly or how quickly he wants it to happen. He says he'd prefer if I just set the pace again and ease him into new things that I want to do. Any ideas on how I can do this, so that he has a little more experience and can think more about what he'd like to do?