HELP! NEED TO BE SPICIER

So I’ve been trying to get into the lingerie realm and have been rushing for a new set almost every time my boyfriend and I are able to have sex (which is not very often). We’re currently in an LDR and I feel as if my options have been kind of bland. I want him ripping my clothes off. Here’s what I wore the last two times. I got good enough reactions from him and each time led to mind blowing sex. Does anyone have any suggestions on where to shop and pick up something that won’t be in one piece at the end of it all? Also maybe some tips on ways of pleasuring him to send him over the edge???