Giving up?

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20 years old and have been ttc for 9months. I've been Thinking about giving up and just getting on birth control, I can't handle the stress or disappointment anymore.😔💔

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Ur 20 years old girl.
I am now 37 and after having 3 mc I still won’t give up, been trying for 7 years

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Don’t give up but don’t go on birth control. Just stop “trying” but don’t prevent either. Sometimes it takes awhile for your body to regulate after birth control. 
Just have sex when you steel like it but don’t be stressing over taking temps and ovulation tests and trying to track ovulation.

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Don't get on birth control, but just stop trying so hard for now. Stop tracking everything...just don't use any protection and live life.

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If this is something you want don't give up. You just need to take a step back, a deep breath and remind yourself why you are ttc and what it means to you. Face each obsticle head on and take everything day by day. When ttc it is so easy to become discouraged and overwhelmed with all the charting, symptom checking,  research, emotional bagged that comes with ttc and most of all the devastating blow at the end of the month when you get yet another negative test and aunt flow rears her ugly head despite all the hard work you've put in. Take all of that and then add in the extra stress that it inevitably puts on you, your body and sometimes your relationships. Giving up seems like the only option most days but you just have to hold your head up and remain hopeful. I am 32 and have been trying for 11 years. During my ttc journey I have endured 3 losses and have been on the verge of giving up many times. Unfortunately I think it's part of the journey, you are constantly blaming yourself and questioning everything. Sometimes giving up seems like your only option. What I do to get me past those days where I want to give up is take a month off from ttc and remind myself why being a mommy is important to me and what giving up would mean then start fresh the next month. Sometimes all you need is a break and there is nothing wrong with that. Sorry I didn't mean for this to be so long but wanted you to know what you're feeling is normal and you're not alone.

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I’m 20 years old as well, I think we’re still young and have a lot of time to keep trying. Never give up on your dreams. I won’t be giving up on mine. These things take time for some people. So please don’t give up, it will happen when the time is right 💖

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