Anyone experience this😔

Is it possible to feel disconnected to someone you miss a lot but once you see them again it would be fine? Me and my bf are in a LDR and haven’t seen each other8’ 2 weeks and we were really upset Bc we couldn’t kiss on New Years or see each other..it sucked a lot so could have that caused like unrealized stress?I love him more than anything we’ve been dating for 4 years😔all of my friends keep telling me you just need to see him and how this happens in every relationship once or twice since all go through some kind of rough patch. He says I’m putting all of this in my head Bc he doesn’t feel different just misses me but sometimes I feel like he’s bored of me..when we text but he says no when I have asked. Could I be putting these thoughts in my own head?