Well I’ve been sexually active since July and I haven’t had a pap.. my SO has hsv so I really need a pap but I feel like my doctors I’ve seen don’t want to cuz I’m really big girl.. one doctor wanted to. She was cool wanted me to do a pap but.. she judged me cuz at the time I was dating someone with hsv. I left the room and she put a big ass bag of condoms where I was sitting. I was so embarrassed... what should I do