Husband hurt my feelings

So today my husband told me that he’s bored with the way we have sex. I was so confused cause I feel like I do different things I like to be sexy with him. He just always complains about (TMI) eating me out. I’m I being selfish on wanting to get eaten out or what lol and I do give him BJs just not always, maybe that’s why. I’m so butt hurt 😩