Hi ladies I am trying to conceive with my second child and all my family have disowned me cause of it,they fear all the risk involved conceiving at 40 I’m putting my self a risk and I am putting my 12 year at risk of being without her Mum,I have to go through a donor as my husband has had a vasectomy,we don’t have a child together and we really want to have a baby that we can call our own and be a family,I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH MY FAMILY,I KEEP TELLING THEM THERE A LOT OF WOMAN CONCEIVING AT 40 N GO ON TO HAVE A HEATHY PREGNANCY AND DELIVER A HEALTH BABY......BUT THEY STILL RECKON I AM PUTTING MYSELF AT RISK OF DIEING WHILE GIVING BIRTH....