Ok so background - me and my boyfriend only been together for a year (which isn't that long). We sort of live together. He gets paid good but makes his own schedule so he doesn't work long hours. I was working part time two 12 hour days a week. But I'm also in school and would study during the days I wasn't working. I was sort of able to balance everything but even then I was struggling. Now, I am working a different job 10 hour days, 5 days a week. And I'm still in school. And I have to do EVERYTHING. If I don't make the bed, it doesn't get made. If I don't do the dishes, it doesn't get done. I do all the cleaning/tidying up (he actually helps in like cleaning cleaning days and will vacuum or mop but that's like once a week). I make all the dinners and clean up after dinner. So I get off work at 5:30pm and come home to still having to do everything ON TOP of studying. I've had a talk with him about it and he said since I'm the one who likes the bed I can make it but he doesn't care so he doesn't make it. He waits for me to do the dishes and if I don't it just piles up. Then he had the nerve to say "no one in the house takes the garbage can to the curb but me". When IM the one who takes the actual bag out! (We have to two roommates who are barely here). I'm just stressing because I'm getting to tired to study and clean and work this much. And I NEVER have time to workout so I'm getting flabby and gross and cellulite. Venting done, thank you.