Just had my baby two days ago. All i want to do is hold my princess but man all the after care gets in the way.

- blood in urine and changing your underwear alone is a hassle

- trying to breastfeed even though there is no milk yet( i know normal process but damn does it hurt and bother and its long)

- im finally 💩 after two days

I couldn’t even finish my great first meal after other visitors came to visit moments after

- going home soon with many questions.

- my vagina and asshole feel like the ring of fire

I know its part of the whole labor and delivery process and its normal and all that. But i didn’t realize that having a baby is not only about the baby needs and labor process and pregnancy. Its also about the after care for the mom and the things she goes through after as well.

With having children, need to be prepared. If you’re not then better try because its not just about having the baby. I thought pregnancy and labor was all of it but the after care for you and the baby herself is hardball.