I’ve been seeing a guy for about 2 months and we both decided to have the talk about whether or not to take it to the next level...defining the relationship. We sat down for 3 hours, read each other our feelings and discussed our outlook on relationships. I’m only 23...and we’re both kind of on the same page. The next person we seriously date will probably be the one we marry. I asked if he wanted to date me and he said no...and In all honestly I don’t think I want to date him yet either...so I guess where I’m getting at is, should I wait a couple more months and see where it takes us or should I just drop his ass.? I’ve noticed that my generation guys are super hesitant to get into relationships and it takes awhile to go to the next level...is it bad to take a good amount of time to actually get to know someone before becoming serious?? Ugh I’m confused.