Would you be upset?

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Went to the club last night with my boyfriend and his friend. We were standing in line and I was freezing because it was 25 degrees and raining because all I had on was a dress. My boyfriend didn’t cuddle me to keep me warm because he didn’t want his friend to feel uncomfortable. He was straight up ignoring me at some points and wasn’t trying to do anything to keep me warm. He thinks I overreacted and made a scene.
Would you be upset?

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Why didn’t you check the weather first and then dress accordingly?
You both sound dramatic.

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I wouldn’t go to the club knowing I had to stand outside in just a dress, but yeah I’d be a little salty. Why would his friend feel weird?? Your bf seems like the type to act brand new in front of his friends. I hate dudes like that. I would’ve embarrassed him in front of his friend and said I’ll remember that the next time you want me to eat your ass🤷🏻‍♀️😂

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It sounds like a high school relationship

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You should've dressed accordingly to the weather. I understand it's a club but, come on, you could've at least brought a jacket? And I understand his reasoning for not wanting to make his friend uncomfortable, third wheeling sucks. This is on both of y'all, sis. Do better next time.

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But did you tell him “I’m cold!hug me,keep me warm” and he refused ? If not ,then let I️t go . I’ve come to realize men are as logic minded as they say. Us women have tons of non verbals cues ,men on the other hand won’t catch any of those hints we try so hard to give off.

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A lot of these comments are kind of rude.. she didn’t need y’alls advice on her choice of wardrobe.. she wanted to see if you’d be mad like her if a boyfriend wouldn’t cuddle you because of his friend.. so yes girl id be mad too and it’s immature of him to think that way.

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Wow You sound like a princess. Dress for the weather! It’s not his responsibility to keep you warm.

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I'd be slightly peeved but you're an adult and can check the weather so it's really all on you...

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Ohhhhhh the joy I get now on the rare occasion that I decide to go to a club knowing that it's OK to wear weather appropriate clothes and a coat! It's not worth catching a cold over. Dress for the weather. Wear a coat. It kills me to see y'all shivering in line when I drive past but hey, that used to be me (and I happily wear jeans, flats, and a sweater out if I want to instead of the minidress and heels because 🤷🏻‍♀️ why wouldn't you?)

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I’d be annoyed

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