Couples massage

I’m getting a couples massage with my boyfriend. And we were gonna take the only availability for the next couple of days which is a couples massage with two male masseuses. But my boyfriend refused to because he will only get a massage if he gets a female masseuse. He said it was gay to have a male masseuse, to me it seemed as though he was sexualizing the idea of a massage. And he specifically wanted a woman to touch him, which I wouldn’t normally care but the fact that he NEEDS that bothers me. Any insight?