And no, I am not! And they don't know I am TTC.

I am also not heavy or suddenly gaines weight just around my tummy. I just wore a loose shirt a couple of times in a row.

I am quite upset about this. I am 32 and the olderst of the ladies in our team with mostly men. We work in a very flat organization, but Im one of the most experienced in our team. I get along with almost everyone and have a lot of friends between my colleagues as well.

But today, two colleagues asked me today secretely if I am pregnant. I had no idea what to say. As they don't know how horrible it is that you see BFN. I almost started crying as I am currently giving up on TTC. I just walked away. I really didn't expect this. Anyone has any better ideas?

Also, what do you do when you actually are pregnant and someone asks you? If it is sort of showing 😳