1. 2. 3. 3rd times the charm...No, No it is Not!

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Another miscarriage! this will be 3 in a row. I am losing hope. what can I do next? They have tested almost everything, thyroid, clotting, progesterone, some others I don't remember the name. each have died at 6 to 7 weeks. I carried one for 8, another for 10, and this one ended at 7. I feel empty inside. I hope they can help me and figure something out.

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Sa

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I am miscarrying right now too, dear. This is number 2 since June. I am here if you need me.

Ta

Ta • Jan 13, 2018
Thank you. I hope yours goes smooth and there are no complications. it's bad enough to know it's going to end but when it is painful is another thing to dread.

St

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Definitely go to a fertility specialist. We did after my 2nd MC in a row. They do more extensive testing than anywhere else...the most important is the HSG X-ray of your uterus, an analysis of his sperm, and a genetic panel screen to see if you’re both carriers for anything. Good luck to you ❤️ and to all of us!!!

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Stefanie • Jan 13, 2018
Because of my insurance, the consultation was a $30 specialist copay and each time we did bloodwork or X-ray or anything it was just a $20 copay. I have normal GHI Emblem Health

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Ta • Jan 13, 2018
Thank you. this helps a lot. if you don't mind me asking around how much was all of that testing?

Jo

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I have had 2. They have to do extensive testing at this point. Do you bleed heavily when you find out you are MC? I barely spot and then I have a MC. They checked everything too and they don’t see any “red flags” my babies are super safe to my body never rejects the baby. Idk but I hope the 3rd ones my rainbow and I never have a MC again. It is so sad and I just can’t. Having a MC is not easy there is a process, bills, recovery, telling people it happens and not to mention a loss of your son or daughter. Just sucks and I don’t understand it. I am so sorry for all your losses. I really am and I hope you get a rainbow very soon. 🙏🏽 praying for you and you family.

Jo

Jo • Jan 12, 2018
Oh man that is special. For my first I was in the hospital on drugs, had to get rushed to ER my blood pressure dropped etc. Anyway I was on drugs and I saw my rooms ceiling open up and my family that has passed as well as my husbands some of which I had never met before and the baby flew up there with them and then the ceiling closed and God took them him. It’s crazy because i believe but I’m not 100 devoted to any religion. He was a bumblebee so now I have so many bumble bees and every time I see a bee I am so calm now. Idk. Moments like that make me happy. I also told my angels that the clothes would be a way to hug their other siblings done here on earth. What we go trough is hard. But live conquers all. We must keep trying ♥️

Ta

Ta • Jan 12, 2018
that is a wonderful idea! defiantly going to do that! But yes I did it was hard letting it out if my hands. the last one I buried a butterfly landed on the box it was so touching.

Jo

Jo • Jan 12, 2018
You got to send your baby for testing? That is really good news. You can get more accurate results. Stay on top of it and make sure they come back with answer quick. They took my mothers baby away and they never told us anything, this was 15+ years ago though. It’s really sad and hard I honestly hate the it will happen when it happens. Him excuse me! 🙋🏻‍♀️ it’s literally a miracle to get pregnant nor carrying full term is HUGE. We don’t want to hear it. I just told everyone not to tell me anything and let me cry. I wrote my babies letters and but all their things in a box. It gave me so much closure. ♥️

Er

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I am so sorry for your multiple losses. I hope they do extensive testing and find out what the underlying issue is. I’ve only had one miscarriage and am scared to go through multiple. I hope you get some answers, a fertility doctor should be able to pin point what’s going on between 6-8 weeks.

Ta

Ta • Jan 12, 2018
I hope so too, thank you.