how do you move on???

Question

I shared the same due date as 3 other of my VERY close friends. still a year later and a miscarriage (at 13 weeks) later we are still seeing our "groups" pictures and still kills me. how do we "get over" this???

Answer

When I feel those feelings rise up in me I give myself a set time to allow myself to feel, and then say...enough. I know I have mourned my loss to the extent that I can, but little moments will happen where it sneaks up unexpectedly—-usually with seeing someone else’s milestone. If I catch myself dwelling too much in the “what if’s” of my lost pregnancy, I distract myself with something else. The reason is, I am highly aware that my own pain, while real and valid, if not held properly can turn into a bitter root that could poison my relationship with others and poison myself from within. And also I remember that sadness for my own situation doesn’t negate happiness for others. My friends shared in my sadness, and I will share in their happiness! What’s hard is our sadness is a moment in time (to them), while watching a healthy child grow is a lifetime. Seems unfair, right? We could all linger on the unfairness of life in some way or another. Let yourself feel everything you need to feel, but don’t stay there too long...it DOES get better! <3

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The due date of my first miscarriage was gonna be March 25. My sister-in-law will be giving birth in the end of February and my husband‘s best friend’s wife will be giving birth in the end of March. One of our friends will be giving birth April. And we were the only ones to miscarry. Sucks. 
Our babies just come when they’re ready :) stay positive

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I feel your pain. 3/4 got pregnant of best friends only I had a MC. I was due April my friend Bri was too and Amanda was due March. My cousin had twins with the same time frame, my friend Monique and 2 of my coworkers. I got pregnant almost exactly a year later. July 2017, due date was a year and 10 days later.y angles could have Co existed and been here born with my bffs babies and on my birthday. I lost both right before the holidays of 2016 and 2017 same month. It’s really REALLY hard and you are left empty with so many questions. All we can do is keep trying and make our angel babies proud for how strong we have to be. I am so sorry for you losses, know you are not alone. 😘🙏🏽♥️ I pray we are blessed very soon with rainbows.

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