I just can’t take it anymore

So. I know SO many women in their early mid or even late 20s that are with some guy who they have been with forever. They might have kids together, hey might own homes together, or maybe just wishing for all that. And the ladies are begging, even public ally begging...for these dudes to marry them. I WISH they would listen when someone says look. If he doesn’t want to marry you stop trying to force it and either accept your life without it. (Each and every one of these ones I’m referring to are dating IMO total assholes/douche bags/losers.) I even know one who’s mid 30s! They all been trying to get married to these loser dudes out here for YEARS! Taking these men’s childish crap. I personally believe strongly in marriage but even if you don’t, I don’t understand the pathetic public humiliation and pleading and wish there was some way to convince these ladies... YOU CAN DO BETTER! Agh. Phew. Okay, I know they won’t listen but at least I got that off my chest. Can I get an amen sister?