First Month on Glow and TTC

Hello ladies! Hoping for some help please. It's my first month "officially" TTC and using Glow so I'm a bit lost.🤦🤔 My Clear Blue opk had its first flashing smiley on Jan 1st, again on the 2nd, and 3rd at 7:30am. Then I finally got my static smiley ☺ on Jan 3rd in the afternoon when I tested again that day around 4:30pm. How many DPO's would that make me now? This tww is driving me insane and I'm so confused whether I'm 9 or 10 DPO's. 😔🙁 I've been feeling super weird and have all kinds of symptoms; even my DH says I've been acting strange lately.😒🙄 Not sure if it's all mental or AF announcing her New Year arrival.😭 She isn't due for another 5 days but I tested anyway (i know, i know too soon!) I got a BFN (of course) this morning on one of the 99cent test (saving the good one for later this week when I can figure this all out) Any help is appreciated!! Baby dust to all those hoping this is their month!🎊🎉✨👶🤞