Thoughts??

I am 20 years old my husband is in the military and I just became a CNA. My previous jobs were all early childhood development. Toddler room teacher and nanny. I adore children. Since I was young my goals in life were always simple that I wanted a stable job, a husband and children. I have always been very mature for my age and know myself and my husband could give proper love and support to a child. A lot of people my age like to go out and party but I'm not really into that. When I talk about starting a family I feel people judge me for my age saying I'm to young, and I will miss out on things if I have a child.. but that has always been my dream. I've traveled to Europe I have had a taste of college and feel a child wouldn't stop me from living a fulfilled loving life. My husband wants a baby as well but is scared (as I think we all are when deciding to start a family) and sometimes is on the fence about it. I just feel that if the two of us made the decision to have a child my family, friends, and co workers would judge me for it. Please give me some honest feedback!!!!