*Trigger warning* How to engage in sexual acts?

Question

So I was molested when I was around 6 years old by a cousin a few years older than me maybe around 12...a female cousin. It still haunts me. 
I have had only one partner and I just can't enjoy oral. It feels good but then I feel grossed out and scared and I tear up and we stop. Just remembering makes me feel like that and I've never had this problem because I wasn't reminded of it..what can I do to fix this please. I don't feel okay. I havent told my SO and I want to but I'm scared. Any advice would be great.

Answer

I am a rape survivor and I can tell you that the best you can do is tell your SO and dont force yourself. If you dont feel comfortable enough, just stop and do something els, and leave oral for another day.
Also I usually feel really uncomfortable during oral if the light is on (dunno why). Maybe try switching the light off or closing your eyes and not looking at your partner.

Answer

I was also molested by an old guy who ws a family friend. The best option is to tell him when you're comfortable. Don't rush things. I told my bf and he understands and takes it slow. We are active but since he knew he takes the time so I can be comfortable.

Trigger warning How to engage in sexual acts?

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