HELP ME PLEASE! TMI IM SORRY!

Nerhys

So I was sitting on my boyfriends lap while he was lying down & he said something stabbed him in the stomach. After a couple of minutes he was like “ooohhhh” & started laughing & I got really concerned like what did I do? He giggled like a child & said that it was my hair spiking him. I got so embarrassed I shoved my face into a pillow & he was like “babe it’s fine I don’t care”. But because I was so embarrassed I made sure I’d shave before he came over again but the hair wasn’t really long enough. So of course now ive got this problem! (Photo) I know it’s just ingrown hairs but I get it anytime I shave & it never goes away! (It was 2x as bad yesterday so I plucked some of the hairs so the redness would cool off)

What are some things you guys do to stop this?