2nd month trying..

Last month was my first month off of birth control so I wasn’t expecting anything to happen, and this will be our first baby so I’m trying not to get too excited because I know it can take a lot of time but it’s just so hard not to get excited😂😭 especially since all I have ever wanted is to be a mommy ❤️❤️ but I wanted to ask what did you guys do to be successful when you first started trying? Did you try and let nature run its course? Or did you use ovulation sticks or pre seed right when you and your partner started TTC? I’m so impatient all I want is to see a positive pregnancy test. I even just got this book! Lol please tell me I’m not the only one who is this crazy 😭