Okay I always want to have sex or full around or masturbate. I pretty much always have since I was a young teen(I didn’t actually have intercourse all the time as a teen don’t worry). Here’s my problem actually achieving an orgasm is really difficult for me. I’ve been married for over 4 years now and it’s always been a strain on our relationship. I still masturbate to have an orgasm most of the time because he can rarely get me off anymore. He tries he really does. But it gets to him sometimes. I have searched many of times trying to find same sort of cream or spray to use right before we get down to it to maybe make me more sensitive or something, but I haven’t found much that would actually be useful for me. So I’m here posting this embarrassing fact about myself to see if there are others like me and see if they’ve found anything to help.

We have tried all kinds of different lubes but they usually just make me feel less, overly moist or irritates my skin.

I have had the same problem with everyone I’ve slept with, it’s not just my husband.