He gets upset if I have a drink!

My husband drinks almost everyday after work and if it’s not a work day and when I decide to have a drink so ( Which is once in a blue moon) like tonight he starts acting like I’m an alcoholic and he make remarks like “Do you really need a drink” and shit like that so now we are in an argument about him drinking DAILY and how he treats me, which is shitty he always calls me names even in front of our kids. I told him I fuck off and so fuck the chick he was sexting last time he was drunk and he acts like he doesn’t know what I’m talking about even though I have proof. So he’s a cheating drunk.