newly single mom

I'm a newly single mom of a 3 month old. I'm really struggling with how to get things done around the house and for myself, I'm stressed to the MAX every day. I don't have any friends or family near that can give me any type of help. I never thought I'd be a single mother.. I have SO much RESPECT for single moms! I have no idea how you ladies do it. How do you do it? What are some tips and secrets?