I’m 16 and my boyfriend and I have been experimenting with sexual activities lately. A couple days ago we decided to have sex, and it hurt, but I knew that was normal, so I ignored it. But the more we have sex, I’m realizing that it’s either painful, or I don’t feel anything at all. Well obviously I feel him inside me, what I mean is I don’t feel any pleasure, I feel like I don’t get anything out of it.

Is this normal? Should I be feeling things?

I haven’t told him about this. He’d ask me if I had a good time and I don’t want to make him feel bad so I lie and say I did. What do I do?