Is it considered cheating if you never deleted old pics an convos you had with other guys before you got in a relationship?

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If you get in a relationship, and your boyfriend goes thru your phone and see pics and texts from guys you talked to before him, is that considered cheating since you never deleted them?

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Hell no! 
I had a life before him and I’ll have a life if there is an after him. My past doesn’t cease to exist just because he’s in my present. That’s crap. 
I’m old. So all of my past ex’s are in actual photographs, not digitally. I’m not throwing out or burning pictures from my past. That’s ridiculous to me and anyone who made me feel i should, would get kicked to the curb.

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I wouldn’t consider that cheating, but why not delete them if you have a boyfriend? If he sees them he’s most likely going to be upset regardless. I know I would be, especially when things are so easy to be deleted & you could have prevented that from happening.

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Not cheating but idk why you’d keep them. Every time an ex and I break up, I immediately delete everything because I want to move on. I know I’d be extremely upset to find my boyfriend has kept pictures and texts with his ex just out of respect. I feel that keeping those things means you have feelings for that person still.

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I never went through and deleted anything. I just lost that stuff when I got a new phone. I don't go back and look at that stuff, Honestly just don't think about it.

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No, you had a life before him. But my question is, why the hell do you still need to have those? I would be a little hurt personally.

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it’s not cheating because it didn’t happen while you two were together, the messages will always exist.

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No, it's not cheating. But I'd wonder why you felt the need to keep the conversation and pics. "I forgot" is valid after a period of time, but before you forget, you are fully aware of their presence.

Is it considered cheating if you never deleted old pics an convos you had with other guys before you got in a relationship?

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