Spice it up

I love my boyfriend i truly do... but... lately things have been dull... and i feel disconnected... i want to spice things up again and bring back the spark we used to have... he wants to as well but we dont know how... we both dont have jobs so we cant afford a date... we live decently apart so i cant just go visit when i want because i cant drive and neither can he.. and we have never had sex...(saving for marriage) .... we want to bond again... to feel that warm envelopment of love again... any ideas?