The DILF I Go on Playdates with

So my daughter, who is 3, made her first best friend at her daycare about 5 months ago. I kept hearing all these stories from her about her best friend and ya’ll it is just precious.

So I get her to point out her friend to me at daycare and she is just the sweetest little girl. I figure maybe if I ever run into one of her parents picking her up I can try to set up a play date or something.

It took awhile, but eventually I was picking up my daughter at the same time her friend was getting picked up.

Ladies... I was shook.

This was the sexiest man I had ever seen. Straight up, hands down, drool worthy, I almost forgot where I was and ripped my clothes off, sexy. Like the heavens opened and the angels sang hallelujah.

I was too busy staring like an idiot to introduce myself. But my baby’s friend had me covered. She came over pulling him by the hand to introduce him to her bestie.

My brain is like a limp noodle, but it zings back into gear when he introduces himself to me. Ya’ll he has an accent. A sexy sexy accent. The way he says my name makes me weak in the knees.

So I fight through the haze of lust I am having that I have never had before and realize he has a wedding ring on. Because of course he does. My hopes and dreams are crushed.

I compose myself and talk to him like a sane, non thirsty human being who totally wasn’t fantasizing about ripping his clothes off five seconds earlier.

We exchange numbers and agree to try to set up a playdate sometime soon for our kids.

A couple weeks go and he ends up calling me first and asks if my daughter and I would like to meet him and his kids at the park that weekend so I make plans with him for that.

Play date time comes and I get my daughter all ready to play and pack some snacks and stuff then head off to the park. He’s already there and apparently has 3 daughters. Our little besties run off to play and we sit on the bench and watch and make small talk.

It’s awkward at first but eventually we warm up and start having some conversation about other things than our kids. I eventually get up the nerve to ask about his wife, because I’m hoping she is ok with this play date, and apparently he is a widower. His wife passed from cancer 2 years ago.

I’m probably going to hell for this but a little part of me thought “holy mother of god maybe I do have a chance!”

He ends up asking about my kids dad and I tell him a little about that situation, which is non existent.

We pass the rest of the time at the park making small get to know each other conversations with the occasional dose of parenting because kids will be kids. The whole time I’m just taking in the sight of him because lord have mercy he has the prettiest gray eyes.

So a few months go by and we do more play dates like that and eventually we trust each other enough to call each other for little things like babysitting.

If I thought he was sexy before then actually seeing the kind of parent he was sent me over the edge. He is such a good father to his girls and takes good care of my daughter whenever he has her for a little while. I do the same with his girls when I have them, but honestly he has me beat at this parenting thing.

Every time my daughter goes to his house she comes home talking about some fun thing they did, like build their own ice cream sundae or some kind of craft activity. Like he is this awesome parent and on my best day I’m a hot functional mess 😩. So that’s a little intimidating.

But ya’ll this is like my dream man. He is hot as hell and a good parent. My little girl’s father chose not to be a part of her life very early on and a little part of me has always wanted to find a man like this for both of us. And his kids are just precious. He has a 3 year old, a 4 year old, and a six year old and I just adore them. Plus all of his kids and my baby get along great.

But everytime I think about putting myself out there and seeing if he would be interested in a date I think about his late wife and how he still wears that ring. What if he doesn’t want to find love again? I don’t want to ruin this for my daughter, she just loves her best friend.

I don’t know what to do