so I have been w/ husband for a little over 4 yrs and been married for just a few months...we had a rough start to the relationship due to I had constantly caught him looking at, talking to girls, sending pics to girls on his phone...he never actually physically cheated but I still consider it cheating...anyways we moved forward since then and now I still get nervous he is still making the bed choices even though he promises he is not and loves me and how I look and I know what he looks at is not even close to what I look at and I want to have a good relationship and ect but I get so self conscious about my body and body type since I know what he likes...what can I do to move past this and feel more comfortable in my own skin so I can be there more sexually for my husband...