I won't make this too long. my daughters first birthday is coming up on Saturday. I planned having it at my sister's house for months and already sent out the invitations. I dis-invited my cousin due to her hanging out with my mother who was released from prison last year. a little back story is my grandparents raised all her kids since she was a junkie. she was the reason a lot of bad things happened to us as kids. of course I want no association with her or anyone that talks to her. my grandparents passed away 7 years ago so it's really just been me and my sister for all these years. I worked full-time at 16, graduated high school and have lived on my own since. now I have a good job that pays great, a family of my own and life is good. so back to the party. they invited my cousin via Facebook and I asked them to pull the invitation back. that then notified my cousin that the invitation was pulled back

so I told her polietly and straightforward that there is to be no drama and she wasn't invited due to the com

pany she hangs out with. of course she's known for having a short temper and acting immature. here are the texts below.

anyway, i called my sister and let her know I would not like her invited to my daughter's party and she said she's family and shes family and she can come to there house. my sister also said if anything happens she will ask her to leave. I will be having friends from work at this party and I really don't want any drama at this party and bringing it's way back to my work. should I change the location of the birthday party to my mother in law's so she cannot attend?