Spelling Controversy

Benton • Married: 08/15/15. Son: 05/20/16. Daughter: 05/18/18

My husband and I picked out our two favorite baby names, one male and one female, long before we got married or pregnant. We already have a son who we named the boy name, Daley, and now we are having a little girl. The problem is, her name is causing us way more trouble than anticipated. We wanted to name her with the pronounciation 'k-eye-lah', but we had never seen the name spelled. Turns out, the person who had this name spelled it Cadhla... (And it can be also pronounced as Kayla) We are those weird people who pick names because of meaning, so we wanted the Irish variant...they also mentioned Keela.. but here in Southern U.S.A. neither of those are pronounced 'k-eye-lah.' So then my husband picked Khyla...but everyone thinks it's spelled weird or 'k-high-lah'...We thought we'd try Kyla but everyone (80% +) we've asked pronounces it Kayla...all we can think of now is Kylah? Maybe? My husband is dead set on this name, and so was I, but now I just want to cry because her name has become so complicated. Help? **Also, please be kind, if possible. I'm at that stage of pregnancy where I'm in tears over everything.**