My husband gets a little bit upset that I never want to have sex but the truth is sex is more work than its worth for me. I’ve only ever orgasmed twice in the last 8 years I’ve been with him. No I’ve never told him any of this because I’m afraid of hurting his ego (even though sometimes I’d love to tell him this when he makes me feel bad for not wanting to have sex!) He tries to a certain extent but then gives up when he’s done so I then wait for him to go to sleep so I can get myself off every single time we have sex. ☹️ I’m sure I’m not the only one but this sucks!!