help please!!

Hi ladies!! I've been trying to get pregnant for almost 2 years. I had an ectopic pregnancy about 6 months ago which was successfully removed with no need to remove my tube..my only concern now is that I'm absolutely dry during intercourse😣I know most if it is because I'm stressed and just focused to get pregnant...but as much as I try to just enjoy being with my husband it's just impossible not to think about the baby I always wanted to have...I work at a kindergarten and that explains how much I'm in love with kids.. when I was dating my husband 3 years ago kept telling him how much I love kids and I want to have many kids..I could never imagine that I would struggle in this😭😭😭😭😭😭😭back to my dryness story, I try preseed all the time but I'm absolutely dry myself...Ive read a lot of articles online and some say it doesn't matter as long as you use a fertility friendly lubricant and some say it does matter to produce CM yourself. I just wanted to know if any of you experience the same situation. My other concern is that after intercourse everything leaks out right away🤔😓😞 I asked my dr and she says it's ok since it take only one sperm to get pregnant but it somehow concerns me...I try to keep my feet up, use a pillow,....but no change😣🙄🙄 Please share what you do/did that help you if you have/had the same issue. thanks in advance and baby dust to all of us 🙇🙇🙇🙇🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏