Ok, so my sister is 9 weeks pregnant and 2weeks ago she went to her first doctors appointment. My sister has never had a pelvic exam.... Ever. I have tried to get her to go before but she was always been to scared. So, this was scary for her and she was brave until she got to the back and they refused to let her have anyone except for the nurse because they wanted to protect the privacy of all the women. I asked her if everyone had there own private rooms she said yes. She cried through the entire exam and they never even stopped to ask her if she's ok is it wrong to tell her to get a new doctor?