So on Friday February 16th of this year is not only my quarter Century birthday but some friends of mine are getting married. I'm going to the wedding.... but I feel as though I won't really get to celebrate my birthday how I want to. They knew it was my birthday but still chose that date. And I know they can't avoid all special days of the year. And I'm happy for them. It's not like I get to celebrate how I want to. My bestie and bf are going to this wedding and the babysitter for their kids is my sister. So if I left the wedding its not like I could go celebrate with her like I want to. And I get to go stag to the wedding. I don't get to celebrate with my parents like I like to every year because I'm being a good friend. Though they have never shown me the same respect. They've ditched plenty on events I've held... so idk how to feel. Or what to do. Help…