Need Marriage Advice


So let me start off by saying I have bad anxiety.

My husband and I were supposed to go out Saturday night for my birthday and I wasn’t feeling great so I cancelled. Tonight I went for a couple drinks with work friends and he’s pissed at me saying I never want to go out with him. He’s a few years older than me and never wants to go out. He took the kids to see a movie he knows I wanted to see tonight to obviously get back at me for going out. I’m hurt and he obviously is too. I’m starting to feel really down on myself and my relationship. Am I in the wrong or what?!