Anyone else going through a dry spell?

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We've went from 2 a days, to once a day, once a week, once a month, to now- nothing...Haven't had sex in over 6 weeks. I have needs/wants, too! Why do some men do that? Working too much? Stress? I just feel lost, and I do not know how to approach this, with him. Any advice?!                               ****Update: 8 weeks later...Apparently, "Hey, suck my titties" works! Minutes later...It was on like donkey kong! 🤣😂🤣

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I feel you girl! My significant other and I just had a big conversation about this a few days ago. We've been together for almost a year and when we first got together it was sex all the time. He couldn't keep his hands off of me. We have 4 kids between the two of us. Our youngest was born in November And we couldn't even wait the full 6 weeks to have sex again. But over the last month I feel like the has lost the desire to have sex. He used to wake up with a hard on and want to have sex. He rarely even gets spontaneous boners anymore. He never initiates sex. If I initiate it, he says he enjoys it when it's happening but it takes forever for me to get him hard. It's weird. It makes me feel unattractive. I know that he has a stressful job but he's always had a stressful job. If anything his job is less stressful now than it has been at any point in our relationship. I think he may be having low testosterone. He has an appointment on the 23rd to check his levels. He is cranky, has no desire for sex, tired all the time. I feel like he has to have something wrong. But I'm with you! It sucks. I need my sex.

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I am in the exact same situation. It’s so frustrating. 😔

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me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 years now. This last month we only had sex once in ready to jump on him everyday. It's awful I have a very high sex drive and he has always had a low sex drive. I also want a baby he says if it happens it happens, well  we don't have enough sex for it to happen. so not only is my sex needs sucking right now I also am afraid I will never become a mother

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i go through the same things, best solution i have found is talking it out and communicating. or initiating things. something that has worked recently is letting him in on the fact that if he doesnt want to have sex, i will just take matters into my own hands....*wink*. and he found that...interesting and all i can say is we have sex about every few days now or more....

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Talk to him in a way that doesn't come off as it's his fault you're not getting laid. Ask him what's up. Do you initiate and get shot down or just wait for him to make a move?

Anyone else going through a dry spell?

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